Mindblown: a blog about philosophy.

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. We all seek escape from people at one point or the other. We need to be in our own space, away from the crowd, away from the hustle and bustle. if we could have a mountaintop to ourselves in those moments, it would…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. Social media is C-R-A-Z-Z! Damn! Forget it ! Life on social media is full of extreme truths, extreme lies, fakes and originals. People are more inclined to show their awesome outcomes, throwing their failures and shortcomings under the carpet. There are evil people…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. Your health is important. Health is wealth and life and health. What I mean is, don’t joke with your health. When health is missing, every other thing seems to find somewhere else to go too. Rest. Sleep. Eat. Drink fluids. Everything in moderation.…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. I believed I would have you and I have. I believed that I would have your sister and I’m carrying her now. I believe I’d give you both a baby brother and I look forward to that. All that, is faith; believing that…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. It is easy to lie. But not to those we love and care about. I remember lying to some people to get them off my neck. I remember lying to myself that I loved a guy. But I found my way back to…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. Please, I am begging you, don’t disgrace us. There is something called a mirror in your room, the corridor along the rooms and in the room adjacent to the front door. Those mirrors are not decorations or to cover up defects. They are…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. Not everything will go as you want, my dear. You would try, put in a lot of time and energy and resources and sometimes, disappointments would still happen. Yes, that is life. People will disappoint you and make it seem like you were…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. Sex is not a taboo word here. Cozy, hear me? You’ve got any question? Ask me. Let me be your first source, not even your books. Growing up, my knowledge about this was first skewed. My parents tried to shield me from the…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. Break ups should be indications for electro convulsive therapy just so one can have amnesia and never remember. It takes courage to break up. It takes courage to take a break up without going crazy and it takes courage to move on and…

Dear Cozy, If life gives you lemons, ask for salt and vinegar. I wasn’t looking for your father when he found me. We were both stumbling out of dark places in our lives. Meeting new people at that point was not a priority . Your father is a wise man. He wasn’t going to just…